Have
you ever heard of the Fibonacci ratio?
Here
is the first few set of numbers:
0, 1, 1, 2, 3, 5, 8, 13, 21, 34, 55, 89, 144,
233, 377, 610, 987, 1597, 2584, 4181, 6765, 10946,
17711, 28657, 46368, 75025, 121393, 196418, 317811…
Let’s look at how this ratio works:
0 +1 = 1. Then, 1 + 1 =
2. Then 1+2 = 3.
Next 2+3 = 5, 3+5=8, 5+8 = 13
etc.
It’s
been shown in mathematics (and in my own opinion)
a very useful ratio considering scientists and mathematicians
have found this ratio in virtually everything. Plant
patterns, art, and even the stock market charts
– to name only a few.
Just
recently, I went through a little experiment here
at Life Tricks Inc. and found out that this can
also be applied towards attracting more and more
of what you want.
Just
as I had explained to you previously how the more
you feel good, the better you feel, let’s
take this ratio and apply it to that because the
results were staggering!
My
family life recently has needed some work done to
it. I’ve been so wrapped up into my work,
that I created an imbalance. My son was getting
out of hand and my wife was struggling to accept
my choices (even though she supports me 100%).
So
my experiment was to apply this ratio towards my
family life. One day, I thought “What if I
do only ONE thing that makes both my son and wife
feel good today? What if I take off work early and
spend an extra hour with them today?”
And
that’s what I did. I intended right then and
there to spend some extra time with my family.
The
next day, my son stood at the door to my office
and yelled “Daddy!” Typically, he didn’t
do this very often since he was so used to me not
being around during the daytime. My wife reported
how much fun it was to spend more time with me.
0+1=1.
I
measured the number 1 as a stepping stone. I took
the leap to GIVE something better in comparison
to what I wasn’t giving previously. With that
one single move, it turned into the next day where
I had planned a special outing for us as a family.
We cooked out and I played with my son, cuddled
with my wife and everything felt great!
I
could sense we were getting closer.
1+1=2
This
time, 2 represented the fact that my son and wife
started doing special things for me. They brought
lunch to me and we ate it together. We joked and
played during my lunch hour. Later that night, my
wife pampered me more than usual.
1+2=3.
This
grows quite rapidly. So I decided to keep doing
special things for the both of them spontaneously.
I put thought and care into what we were going to
do as a family in a special way.
3+2=5.
We
were getting even closer, and closer. I did things
for them, they looked forward
to doing more things with me. We started planning
special trips together and our family was growing
stronger and stronger.
And
it just kept going and growing.
So
I figured “why not do this
with money?”
I
give by nature but it wasn’t really a habit
to do it all the time. Little did I know that making
it a habit however turned out to be one of the best
investments I had ever made!
Fibonacci
ratio kicked into full effect!
Suppose
you gave a person a dollar. Well, 1+1=2. That means
you’d get 2 dollars back. Suppose you gave
those two dollars away. Well, 1+2=3. So
no big deal. You made $3. But you decide
to give those $3 away!
2+3-$5, $8, $13, $21, $34, $55, $89, $144, $233, $377, $610, $987, $1597, $2584, $4181, $6765, $10946, $17711, $28657, $46368, $75025, $121393, $196418, $317811!!!!
Hard to believe? In invite you
to try it. This works in virtually every situation
but for the sake of getting back to the subject
at hand, how do you think your life would be different
once you begin to give people what you want to experience
first, and then keep giving it?
A friend of mine had no luck with the ladies.
He didn’t have a clue what to do or how to
act. He didn’t even have the courage to approach
a woman he found attractive. He wasn’t a bad
looking guy and had a well paying career that he
enjoyed, this shouldn’t have been a problem
for him but it was.
So I taught him how to be a self-leader and
start giving what he wanted to women first.
I asked him to imagine what he would like women
to do to him without him having to do anything first.
He said “come up to me and talk to me.”
I told him to start doing that to women. Just
be a self-leader and start talking to women. “I
don’t know what to say” he replied.
“What would you like a woman to say to you
when she approaches you?”
He stated “a compliment I guess.”
“Well then start giving compliments.”
So he did. For the next week he just started to
innocently notice things about women he wanted to
meet that he liked and complimented them on it.
A funny thing started to happen. As he visited
the same places, women started approaching him calling
him by his name. Other women started noticing his
growing popularity and before he knew it he was
surrounding himself with women everywhere he seemed
to go!
He then started applying this secret with
making women feel good by focusing on funny and
positive things. These women, in turn, started doing
the same!
It paid back in spades!
Now you might be wondering “What does
this have to do with covert hypnosis?”
Think about it! He as communicating a positive
message that he could be approached, that he made
women feel good – he was catching the attention
of women that didn’t even know him and causing
them to approach him!
This is all unconscious communication! This
is the very core and deepest secret of covert hypnosis
you’ll ever learn!
Covert hypnosis, if you’ll remember
from my website, is nothing more than unconscious
communication. LEVERAGE THIS CONCEPT!!!
You will change the moment you realize you
have to GIVE first – whatever it is that you
want to experience more of! It will pay for itself
in spades. Try it and see.
Too many people try to be selfish to get what
they want in their social situations. This is when
it backfires. Let others make the mistake thinking
that they can use covert hypnosis to manipulate
people, and let them have the problems that come
as a result of not understanding that you have to
give first.